Decision

I have always wondered, how to take a good decision. I am realizing that....its not just the quality of your decision that matters. But, also the timing plays a crucial role. The earlier you decide somthing the more time you get to work on it, strategize your plans, and more are the probabilities that you're mentally prepared and you'll sail through it. It's just like....first come, first serve. 

Many a time, I've been told that, it's the natural talent of people- Some take good decisions and some the bad ones. But, with time I'm realizing that....yes, there exists a gap between decision taking capabilities of people. But, that gap can be minimized with a few precautions, and consciousness.

Let's look through a few tried, and trusted steps-

1.) Every decision making process starts with - Confusion. And if you're confused, congratulations....you've already won half the battle.

2.) Then after ....you've not to sit and watch your confusions be as they are. You've not to overthink and hurt your little head. Tell me, what is confusion? For sure....it means you've some ideas in your head, right? And you're struggling to choose the right one for you.

3.) Now, that you've found a cup of options to choose from- go and make a research over everything. Keep in your mind  the things- you've to ponder over like.... your potential, the hard work you can put in, the time you have, your family aspirations and legit concerns, and your beliefs about yourself. Take help from people who are experienced and you think they will help you with all their heart. Take help from the reviews of the people on internet who have gone through the same- through quora, linkedin etc. Jot down the pros and cons of every option you had in your head.

4.) Now, that you've evrything about your confusion listed on the pages. Compare their pros and cons and choose the most suitable one from them. And if still, you're not 100% clear with the idea .....just choose the one your heart says....is right for you. I am telling you ...your heart never lies and it's calling is the most trusted and right one. You'll never regret believing in your heart. Trust me....you'll never!

5.) The thing is.... once you decide to go for somthing, make sure the alterations doesn't let you change your decision. If you think....you're right and you can get through this....never let the voices of others take you down. Belive in yourself, your inner gut, and your capabilities. No one knows you better than you. At the end.... it's you vs you.

Just know that, nothing can stop you from grabbing the sky in your hands rather than you. You're loved, and backed by genuine people who are always having your back. You'll never fall back to dust but sky. Once you start, there is no going back. Have faith, patience, and go on. This universe is yours. It's calling for your interset. Show yourself.....you can and you'll. Life has a lot in it's sac for you. Believe in your heart.

Good luck🤞🧿

• Signing Off - Arpit.