"MY TAKEAWAYS FROM 2021".

•DECEMBER MIGHT BE JUST THE LAST MONTH ON THE CALENDER BUT, IT  GIVES THE WAY TO A NEW YEAR TOO. THIS IS A MONTH WHERE WE ARE SUPPOSED TO TAKE A PAUSE FROM OUR HURRIED LIVES AND TRY TO OBSERVE HOW THIS YEAR PASSED BY? BELIEVE ME, IT SEEMS TO BE A MATTER OF GREAT EXHILERATION TO GO THROUGH THE ENTICING NOSTALGIA OF AN YEAR, PASSED BY. THE SPEED OF TIME FEELS HORRIFYING THOUGH.... BUT, THE LESSONS ARE OF EXCEPTIONAL SIGNIFICANCE.  

• "2021" HAS BEEN THE MOST TULMUTUOUS YEAR OF MY LIFE SO FAR. IT WAS A YEAR FULL OF EXPERIENCES. A YEAR OF THE GREATEST LEARNINGS. A YEAR WHICH TAUGHT ME THE LESSONS OF VIVID ASPECTS OF THE HUMAN EXISTENCE. A YEAR WHICH MADE ME UNDERSTAND  WHO I ACTUAY AM! YES, THIS YEAR GIFTED ME MY MOST ENTHRALING HOBBY - WRITING..❣.. YES, IT MADE ME PURSUE CSE FROM NIT JAMSHEDPUR..😊.. TOO. THANKS TO EVERYONE OUT THERE, FOR EACH AND EVERY BIT OF DIRECT/INDIRECT SUPPORT.  AND LASTLY! A LOT OF GRATITUDE TO THE GOD. 

•NOTHING TEACHES US BETTER THAN EXPERIENCES.AND THE ATTITUDE AND CHARACTER WE EMULATE IS SOMEWHERE A RESULT OF OUR DAILY CONTEMPLATIONS ONLY. YES! SOMETIMES I FIND MYSELF WEAK TO IMBIBE PERFECTLY, SOME OF THE LEARNINGS LEST IT WOULD HAVE BEEN MUCH BETTER..🙇‍♂️.. BUT, I THINK IT'S A GREAT IDEA TO PEN DOWN THE EXPERIENCES I MET WITH - THROUGH MY TULMUTUOUS JOURNEY ACROSS THIS BEAUTIFUL YEAR - 2021.

•SO HERE IT GOES :- 

1.) DESTINY AND DESTINATION ARE DIFFERENT TERMS. BUT OUR JOURNEYS DEFINE WHETHER WE ARE GONNA CHERISH IT..😊.. OR PERISH IT..😥..

2.) PROCEEDING FURTHER WITH NIL EXPECTATIONS GIVES US A FREEDOM TO CARRY ON - UNDISTRACTED. 

3.) "PERFECTION IS JUST A MINDSET". SOMEONE'S OPINION SHOULD NOT OVERRULE OURSELVES. WE ARE PERFECT THE WAY WE ARE - JUST KEEP TRYING TO BETTER YOURSELF DAY-BY-DAY. 

☆4.) KEEP YOUR CIRCLE VERY SMALL. IT WILL HELP YOU TO CARE FOR YOUR LOVING ONES EASILY IN THIS BUSY LIFE WHICH IN TURN WILL STRENGTEHN THE BONDS OF YOUR TRUE RELATIONSHIPS.

☆5.) "UNDERSTANDING SOMEONE PERFECTLY" IS A MYTH. RATHER, TRYING OUR BEST EFFORTS AND BEING CURIOUS TO THE FULLEST TO UNDERSTAND THE ONGOINGS, THOUGHTS AND ASPECTS OF SOMEONE IS REAL LOVE..❣..

6.) PREFER THE STATEMENT - "DO WHAT YOU LOVE" OVER "LOVE WHAT YOU DO". CUZ. THE FORMER ONE GIVES YOU THE FEEL OF FREENESS WHILE THE LATTER ONE SEEMS TO BE A CONSTRAINED ONE.

7.) IF YOU ARE REALLY PASSIONATE ABOUT SOMETHING - JUST GO FOR IT AGAISNT ALL ODDS INCLUDING THE FEAR OF FAILURE.  LIFE IS TOO UNPREDICTABLE TO WAIT....AND THE PAIN OF GUILT IS MUCH MORE HAZARDOUS THAN THAT OF FAILURE.

☆8.) MUTUAL COMMUNICATION ISN'T SUFFICIENT TO RUN A RELATIONSHIP PROPERLY. BUT, IT'S THE "MUTUAL COMPREHENSION" -  THE WAY WE TRY TO UNDERSTAND OUR MUTUAL ONGOINGS CALMLY, OPEN - MINDEDLY AND PATIENTLY.... DEFINES THE FATE AND THE STRENGTHS OF OUR MUTUAL BONDS.

9.) NEVER JUDGE ANYTHING/ANYONE TOO EARLY BASED ON YOUR PRECONCEPTIONS AND IMAGINATIONS. TRY TO ANALYZE REALISTICALLY ON YOUR OWN GROUNDS OF THOUGHTS AND ACTIONS. 

10.) NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS ONLY DUE TO SOME CONSTRAINTS. CUZ. AT THE END IT WILL PERISH YOU MORE THAN YOU WILL CHERISH IT. PUSH YOUR LIMITS TO GET OVER THE SAME. 

11.) BEING GOOD AT HEART..❤.. IS MORE THAN ENOUGH. 

12.) TRUENESS HELPS US REAP THE FRUITFUL EXPERIENCES IN VIVID UNEXPECTED FORMS. 

13.) GOOD PEOPLE AND RELATIONS, THAT WE MAKE ON OUR OWN TERMS OF THOUGHTS, EMOTIONS, REALISTIC APPROACH etc. ARE THE MOST VITAL EARNINGS OF OUR LIVES. THEY GIVE US A REASON TO LIVE. 

14.) FOCUS AND BELIEVE ON YOUR KARMA. IT'S LIKE A BOOMERANG.... YOU ARE GONNA REAP THE SIMILAR FRUITS AS YOUR ACTIONS ARE.

15.) RUNNING ON THE EXPECTED PATHS OF THIS OUTER WORLD AND RUINING YOUR INNNER PEACE IS TOTALLY UNJUSTIFIED. BE FREE .... UNTIL AND UNLESS YOU ARE TRUE ENOUGH TO YOURSELF, NOTHING MATTERS MORE!

16.) CONTINOUS PROCASTINTION INHIBTS THE CONCIOUSNESS WHICH IN TURN DISTRACTS US FROM THE ROADS TO OUR DESTINATIONS.... BE CONCIOUS ENOUGH TO CONTEMPLATE ON THIS POINT!

17.) ONLY EDUCATIONAL QUALIFICATIONS DON'T DEFINE THE QUALITY OF A PERSON. THERE ARE VARIOUS OTHER ASPECTS TOO.... LIKE, EMOTIONS, CHARACTER, ATTITUDE AND MANY MORE. NEVER JUDGE SOMEONE TOO EARLY!

18.) FOCUSING ON POSITIVES CREATES A HOPE AND FULFILS US WITH ENERGY TO CARRY ON WITH A PEACEFUL MINDSET.

19.) "EXPECT LESS, ACCEPT MORE". 

20.) EMOTIONS DO MATTER - THEY TEACH US THE LESSONS OF LIFE IN A MUCH LUCID FORM.

21.) TRUST ACTS AS A GLUE WHICH TIGHTENS THE BONDS OF OUR BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIPS. NEVER GIVING UP ON OUR TRUE ONES DEFINES OUR CHARACTER.

22.) EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A BETTER REASON. MAY BE -LOOKING FORWARD IT MAY SEEM TO BE HIGHLY DEPRESSIVE AND DISSATISFYING FOR SURE. BUT BE PATIENT, TRUE IN YOUR EFFORTS AND PURE IN YOUR INTENT.... THE DAY WILL COME FOR SURE, WHEN THE DOTS WILL SEEM TO BE CONNTECTING LOOKING BACKWARDS.

23.)MUTUAL RECIPROCATION OF EMOTIONS AND AFFECTION PLAYS THE MOST VITAL ROLE IN DEFINING THE STRENGTH AND EXTENT OF OUR RELATIONSHIPS.

☆24.)TRUE FRIENDSHIPS - A KIND OF OUR SELF MADE RELATIONS. "HARD TO FIND BUT THE MOST NECESSARY ONES TO SURVIVE". YES, THIS IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIP WHICH STANDS BESIDE OUR FAMILY. THE ESSENCES ARE - SELFLESSNESS, TRUENESS, LOYALTY, CARE, LOVE , TRUST AND EVERYTHING WHICH IS ENOUGH TO DEFINE A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP. 

☆25.) BEING OURSELVES MAKES US MEET OUR COPYSELVES WHO FIT INTO THE GRUDGES OF OUR SHAPES. - NEVER PRETEND TO BE SOMEONE OTHER ONLY FOR THE SAKE OF SHOW OFF AND WHATEVER ELSE, MAY BE YOUR REASON. LET THE TRUEST FORM OF YOURS DO THE TALKING CUZ. "LIFE IS NOTHING BUT A  BRIDGE BETWEEN OUR BIRTH AND DEATH". SO BEING THE TRUEST ONE IS A MUST, I THINK!

26.) NEVER HESITATE TO APOLOGIZE FOR YOUR MISTAKES - IT CAN SAVE AND STRENGTHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS TO A MUCH GREATER EXTENT. ( TAKE THE RISK TO DO IT AGAINST ALL THE FREAKING FEARS.... IT WILL BE GOOD..😊..).

27.) SUFFER IN SILENCE AND SMILE IN THE CROWD. YOUR TEARS DOESN'T MEAN TO EVERYONE.  THERE ARE ONLY A FEW OUT THERE WHO LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY.  

28.)LIVE TO LOVE..❣..AND LOVE..❣.. TO LIVE.

29.) TRUE RELATIONSHIPS ARE MORE OF RESPOSNSIBILITIES AND LESS OF FUN.

30.) NEVER EXPECT - " EVERYTHING AT ONCE". IT'S TOTALLY IMPOSSIBLE. BE REALISTIC, KIND AND COMPASSIONATE. AND LASTLY! ALWAYS KEEP A SATISFACTORY SMILE ON YOUR FACE..😀.. 

# THESE WERE JUST SOME SORT OF EXPERIENCES, I SHARED. THESE PAGES ARE TOTALLY INSUFFICIENT TO PEN DOWN MY FULL CONTENT OF EXPERIENCES THIS, YEAR HAS TAUGHT ME. SORRY..🙅🏻‍♂️.. FOR THAT! FINGERS CROSSED..🤞.. AND LET'S HOPE FOR A BETTER AND CHEERFUL 2022.

# I WILL URGE YOU ALL, TO WRITE DOWN YOUR OWN TAKEAWAYS FROM 2021.... IT WILL HELP YOU TO UNDERSTAND YOURSELF IN A MUCH BETTER WAY.

#THANKS FOR GIVING YOUR TIME.

#I HOPE YOU ENJOYED GOING THROUGH THIS ARTICLE.

#SUGGESTIONS AND CRITICISMS ARE ALWAYS WELCOMED.

☆ Signing Off :- ARPIT PANDEY.