HOW TO IMPROVE COMMUNICATION SKILLS....

《☆☆》 NEEDS OF GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS: In this contemporary world whatever the field (engineering/medical/civil services/mass communication/fashion technology....etc)you are going to explore, requires a good communication skill.I think you are truely aware about it, so, read this article with a hope that you will surely be benefited by this tiny effort of mine....


•DISCLAIMER: This particular article is endowed with my personal experience of "how to improve your communication skills on your own."
         These may or may not work for an individual. But my "personal belief system" says that it will surely work if accomplished in a perfect way. 
                       Give it a try for a month or so, I'am sure that you will find yourself a little bit improved....

☆ ITS A LENGHTY ARTICLE, YOU MUST REQUIRE AROUND 15-25 MINUTES TO GO THROUGH THIS ARTICLE.  BUT HAVE BELIEF....AND BE STABLE....IF I CAN WRITE THEN WHY CAN'T YOU READ IT??

REQUIREMENTS:-
1.)A mentor/friend, to whom you have to communicate in the way you want to become in the future. A one, on whom you can trust that he/she will surely help you when you are wrong. A one who will be ready to contemplate/think on your ideas calmly,  no matter how bizarre they are.  Lastly, a one who has the same extent of willingness to improve himself/herself as you have.
2.) A strong will power to improve yourself.
3.) A mobile phone/tablet/laptop.
4.) A conscious brain.
These were some basic requirements.  Now, you are all done up on the ground/basic level ....so, let's move on the procedure.....

》See, the procedure i am gonna tell you about, may seem to be a bit ineffective to you in the very first go. But if you are giving your valuable time to read this article, then you must have to "TRUST " on my ideas before working on them.
And, i want to make it clear that it will surely work for you.
                      If, you wannna the proof, you may have a look on my blogspot account where i try to share my ideas. "Follow  my ideas only if you find yourself interested in reading my articles."

《(COPY AND BOOKMARK THIS LINK ON YOUR BROWSER FOR FUTURE REFERENCE.....THERE IS NO NEED TO FOLLOW THIS LINK AS OF NOW, AS YOU ARE ALREADY READING THIS ON MY BLOGSPOT 😊)》.

》Ohh, i wrote a lot about something different than the title of this article. Please! forgive me for this and let's move on the crux....

1.) Make a different folder in your phone gallery. You may name it "FASCINATING WORDS" as i did in my case.

2.) See, there is no need to study tense...grammar etc. Simply, you have to be conscious enough to whatever you read in a day. Some of the good sources are-

a).INSTAGRAM: follow the accounts which write a better description of their posts. I'am not saying that "don't follow your friends/close ones".I'am only trying to say - "have some good ones in your following list".

b.) GOOGLE FEEDS: Keep your interests in google feed, more inclined towards INFORMATIVE ARTICLES. Just give a tag of "NOT INTERESTED"  to the useless articles.
...like the one's which inform you about bollywood diaries, actors, actresses..etc.
The AI(artificial intelligence) of google will surely work for you in the long run, and improve your google feed.

c.) QUORA: Based upon my personal experience,  I found it the best. Here you may find a big pool of professional writers too. It has a huge community of highly qualified people, whose articles may blow up your mind.

》I think, these sources are more than enough for your purpose. Now, the question arises , how to use these sources? Don't worry, keep yourself calm, concentrated and move forward with this article....
                               All you have to do is - simply read rhe articles on quora, google feed....etc. 
(In my perception, instagram is not only meant to have a look at your friend's uploads and giving reactions in terms of likes, comments etc. See these things are totally virtual and immaterial. My personal suggestion is, while you are going through the posts of some good Instagram accounts - you must read the description of these posts too.....rather than only looking on them and contemplating ...ohh how successful/cute/beautiful.....he/she is!!
Believe me, it will give you a great learning not only about communication skill stuffs, but a lot more too. You may follow some good IAS/IPS officers ....or as per your interests....
I want to share a screenshort of my comment liked by an ips officer....cuz i got greatly overwhelmed after seeing it in my notification panel.)
Just have a look on the words/sentences/phrases which fascinate you the most in the article you go through(read). Google it and take a screenshort of it's description.  Move the taken screenshort in the folder you made for your communication skills purpose. You may have a look over these images in your phone gallery , anytime, anywhere. Don't try to learn them, just have looks on them frequently. If your interest is good(IF YOU ARE READING THIS ARTICLE TILL NOW, THEN BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE TRUELY INTERESTED IN IMPROVING YOURSELF), then believe me you will surely be able to fix them in your "SUBCONSCIOUS MIND".
Bcz, my personal experience says, "only those things are able to travel from your conscious mind to the subconscious mind,  in which you find yourself highly interested."

》Let me define these two terms separately-
a.)CONCIOUS MIND: The part of mind which is working instantaneously. It is meant for understanding purposes.
b.) SUBCONSCIOUS MIND: The part of the brain which is responsible for the  learning/remembering purposes. It's long lasting. e.g. all you remember about your past is nothing but the stuff stored in your subconscious mind.

☆PRO TIP : Try to relate yourself to the articles you read, or try to create some interesting situations, so that the articles you go through, fascinate you in an interesting way. Bcz, i think you have enough life experience that, you can think on your own "something which fascinated you in the past, remains in your subconscious mind even now."

•MOST IMPORTANT ASPECT OF IMPROVING COMMUNICATION SKILLS:-   it's nothing but "WRITING PRACTICE". Believe me without writing your thoughts/emotions in a way that it fascinates the reader, there is no meaning of your communication skills. You may write on pages, in chats with friends, on blogspots..etc.....SEE BE REALISTIC..."IF YOU COULD HAVE AN INSTAGRAM ACCOUNT THEN WHY NOT A BLOGSPOT TOO."
Overall, it will be a great informative fun for you to go through this exceptionally interesting journey.

☆HOPE IT WORKS FOR YOU.
"MY VALUABLE TIME, WHICH I GAVE TO WRITE THIS LONG ARTICLE WILL BECOME MORE VALUABLE IF IT DOES THE WORK FOR YOU".

☆☆☆☆YOU MAY FOLLOW MY BLOGSPOT ACCOUNT, BY GOING ON MY HOME MENU,  BY CLICKING ON CAREER EXPERIENCES....AND THEN ON THREE TAB BUTTON PRESENT ON LEFT TOP CORNER....WHERE YOU MAY FIND THE FOLLOW BUTTON😊).☆☆☆☆

☆LET ME KNOW IN THE COMMENT SECTION WHETHER YOU WILL PROVE MY EFFORTS EFFECTIVE OR NOT....

☆SUGGESTIONS AND CRITICISMS ARE ALWAYS WELCOMED.

☆ THANKS FOR READING THIS ARTICLE

SIGNING OFF : ARPIT PANDEY....


Comments

  1. Thanks arpit for covering this topic which I always wanted.
    Well explained and now I am gonna follow these from now onwards.

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    1. My best wishes are always with you....and i truely believe that, we are gonna rock "TOGETHER", you know!

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  2. Really good one , i will try it out.

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  3. "Useful info!!"
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    1. πŸ‘πŸ‘...then surely u must try it ....

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