"LIFE, CONTROLLABLES AND UNCONTROLLABLES".

☆DISCLAIMER :- This article is totally based on my real life experiences and thought processes. I have tried my best to keep the interests of the readers. I am heartedly very sorry (🙅‍♂️), for any inconvenience. Btw, these are my duties to write.....don't worry, nothing like this is gonna happen.....go on with a big smile on your innocent face....😀..... smiling faces are always soothing and beautiful..... as i had read somewhere.......

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☆ "LIFE" - In my perception and based on my  real life experience too, life is a state which is miserable and joyous at the same time. This mixed feeling is kinda hitting our head hard on a tough wall and expecting no damage to it as a consequence of the same. If i clearly define... then i surely will say that either we are fooling ourselves or our life is fooling us. Literally speaking, sometimes it becomes as tough to contemplate about the real path to real happiness, as to desire to see the sun in the midnight. What it is all about ?..... CONTROLLABLES, UNCONTROLLABLES....and many more.....sometimes this minute brain goes totally PATHETIC while making a choice between what is right and  what is wrong?. What should be the criteria to define the value of someone or something?..... what kind of traits should we practice in our real lives? What is our deservance? Actually the most frequent question which must be asked is..... who are we and what are we all about? I think the real answer lies within it.

But, it's not that easy to answer as it looks like woven in the words. It's as tough to find as to touch the moon with our fingers. 

The most PATHETIC state...... a mankind can enter into is when he/she realizes that...... what everything  he/she desrves doesn't meant to be accomplished perfectly as per his/her desires....  cuz, here comes a factor called "UNCONTROLLABLES" into play. What an EXAGGARATED PATHETIC STATE it is? Even my hands are TREMBLING by just a thought of the same. 

A person is like a PUPPET of his/her own thought processes......which are influenced by his/her own personal traits, attitude towards life, nature, approach, HOPES and many more to mention. 

Living a respectful life alongwith keeping a desire to do something extraordinary for the surrounding society confined to our heart and mind is like SACRIFICING OURSELVES, NOT FOR THIS SURROUNDING SOCIETY BUT FOR our OWN WILL TO DO SO. It's kinda sacrifice cuz.... what we expect in return from this surrounding society ..... there is an AMPLE possibility that we will meet with results which will be conveying something different AGAINST OUR OWN EXPECTATIONS. This is the moment ....

 which makes our lives PATHETIC. So, should we stop thinking well about our surrounding society too?. The answer is simply, NO!

What we should do is..... do whatever we want with "NIL EXPECTATIONS". But, now the question arises .....is it easy to EMULATE/PRACTICE? The answer is simply NO, again! Don't get shocked....cuz, being idealistic is not easy . It is like ME Vs ME. And FIGHTING A BATTLE AGAINST OWNSHELF IS LIKE HURTING THE SAME SOUL WHICH BEATS IN US WITH EACH PASSING EFFORT. IF WE CAN FEEL THE PAIN .... JUST AFTER SENSING THE PAIN OF OUR LOVING ONES... THEN CAN YOU IMAGINE WHAT KIND OF SEVERE PAIN IT IS?. 

But, yes if we have to walk on the paths which are tilted much more towards  IDELITY then......surely we have to face and SUSTAIN THESE PAINS WITHOUT EVEN COMPLAINING TO ANYONE for the same.....not even to the SUPREME SOUL. 

See, we cannot predict what's gonna happen in the next second of time..... and we are very well aware about the UNPREDICTABILITY OF OUR LIVES...... so we must try our best to cherish each and every  moment to the fullest atleast for our beats (i.e. the persons who beat in our herts, each and every bit of a second.... cuz. Knowingly or unknowingly they are a reason to live and a great source of positive energy too).

I would say......even if it requires the fake smiles......then fake it.....but, don't let the outer world realise, what our innershelf is drowning into!. Cuz, for someone we are their source of inspiration and strengths...... and strength factors are meant to provide them much more strength, even they can't imagine of. It's our moral duty, i think. Be ready to SUSTAIN....... 

☆Remember..... "PATIENCE IS THE POWER AND PAIN AT THE SAME TIME ..... WE HAVE TO SUSTAIN EVERYTHING, WITH A BIG SMILE ON OUR FACES."

☆Keep smiling ....😀......

☆ So, i end this tiny article here.

☆SUGGESTIONS and CRITICISMS are always WELCOMED. 

Signing Off :- ARPIT PANDEY.