"Opinion"- how simple does this word look like....until we dissect it deeper and unravel its hidden layers. Basically, opinions are the ideas that stem from our minds.
An opinion may be categorized into various forms depending on its root cause. Sometimes it's about materialistic things. Sometimes, people and what we are going to discuss is about - "the ideas".
Mainly, we'll stress how the girl's opinion plays a key role.
If you contemplate with an open and calm mind....you'll find that by the term "Her Opinion matters"- I am trying to display "Her Participation" in the decision-making process.
Let's look at it's bigger picture. Do you know why democracy is the best form of government? Yes, there are several good reasons for it. But, one of the prominent reasons is that... Democracy is based on consultation and discussion. Thus, democracy improves the quality of decision-making.
So is the case with our lives. In our society, there is this major drawback that people have this misconception or a stereotype that....only men are meant to make all crucial decisions. Women are there only to look after the household chores and other stuff. Yes, to a great extent, this mentality has been changed and is in rapid transformation too. But we can't deny it's strong persistence in society yet.
The basic idea is that- before taking any decision....all those should be free to give their opinions- who will be affected by it directly/indirectly. So, when it comes to a family or a relationship, "Mutualism" becomes crucial. Because whatever we do in our lives- affects every person attached directly to us. So, this is the case with females too. And that's why it's their right and requirement to participate in every small to big decision. It adds to her mind that she shares a good value in that family/relationship. And apart from that, it shows that she is revered, addressed, and loved. As human beings, it's our natural instinct to take opinions of whom we trust. And so, we do in the people we have in our lives. And females are a part of it. To be right- a significant one. So, their say matters. And that's how,
"Her opinion matters"
And inherently- "She matters"
In this era of increasing literacy, and intellect of people, we should be aware enough not to abide by stereotypes. Legitimately, evils need to be deceased. And so is the case with the participation of girls in decision-making. It'll address their thought process and needs. And thereby, will make them feel more secure.
So, what are you thinking? Am I right?
-Thanks for holding your patience.
-Suggestions and criticisms are always welcomed.
-Signing Off - Arpit.
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