"HER" - to whom I am referring? I know, you are thinking as such. And I am much sure that, your head has thought of someone..😀.."the HER, your head and heart thinks about all the time"....
But, I am referring to a "Girl" in general. A girl who- in her different phases of life plays different and vital roles. She is a good daughter, a good sister, a good friend, a good wife, a good mother, and a heavenly grandmother too. In her different ages she has different peculiar roles to play. Being a good daughter....she has to abide by the rituals and cultural etiquettes of a good family she is born in. As a sister, she is a caretaker of her younger siblings, and a childliike lovely creature for her elder ones. For her good friends, she is the better one and as a wife....she is someone who runs the home putting her everything into it. And as a mother....she is the most responsible one....how to raise her son as a gentleman and someone who would not be a threat to the society. And for her daughter....to raise her like a princess who is down to earth and knows the pros and cons of the society. A daughter who is soft inside but strong too. Overall, as a mother....she takes this responsibility to raise her children strong, ethical, and self reliant. And being a grandmother....she is someone who loves her grandchildren the most. Her grandchild is the last best friend of her, amd she is the first best friend for her grandchildren.
I don't know whether I'm the very right guy to pen down my thoughts on such a sensitive topic. But, I vow to put my heart clearly into it. What I personally feel is right and do the same in my real life.
I've experienced that, what we think and how we behave.... originates from, how we are raised and what do we do when we are with ourselves only. It's more about, what are we, when no one is watching. What's residing deeper into our heart and mind.
It all starts from our early schoollife only. Because, the very psychological truth is that....what we feed to our brain, as a kid.... growing up, it takes a strong shape. And I have been looking into these things very closely since then(not kidding though!). I've seen people making lame jokes on the girls, making fun of them in abrupt words and sometimes crossing the limitation they are supposed to be bound about. It is the root cause that we see these frequent cases of harrasment of girls in public places and crowds. Because people have grown up with those nasty thoughts. Little did they thought about the girl(their mom) who raised them for the well cause! That's the only cure I guess. People often misunderstand this word "masculinity". Masculinity is not about being rude, tough, and emotionless. I think, masculinity is about being balanced and lenient. It's about taking extra care of a girl when she is on her period, cooking when she is not feeling well, and sharing the chores with her....if she can't handle everything alone. Masculinity is about doing everything for her good causes as per the good expectations from her. Being a girl is not a certificate of suppressing her needs, voice, and ideas of better living. It's about supporting her in her right ideas and correcting her with mutual solution when she is not right. It's about....being the one you want her to be. It's about balance.
In this generation....I accept both sides are adulterated to some extent. But, these ill adulterations need to be deceased.
All I know is that.... what's more glorious than being true. If you are not willing to walk every stride with someone till the very end and if you are not ready to go through anything with her and never give up, then why to give her a proposal to become yours? Why to give her hopes for a better life knowing that you're gonna end up messing her heart with an unrecoverable heartache? Why to pass those nasty comments on somone, you can't do something good for? Why to harass somone for your lusty desires? And why? Why not to treat your tongue with good words, fill your head and heart with love and legit thoughts?
Referring to those ethical scriptures, women are only meant to be respected and cared. They are the goddess and paradigm of unconditional love, revere, and care. If you exist, you exist because she exists....look at your mum's smiling face when you tell her about your better purposes in life.
The only question is.... what's a better tool to keep this world happy and joyous than "LOVE"?. It's not just for lovers but for every human who has a beating heart and their blood rushing in their veins.
Love, live, and grow....and let everyone grow. Help them....take help.... "Karma is a boomerang"....I hope you know this.
So, now....you're free to think about "HER" again. But, by "HER".....I hope you think about every girl, who wants to open her wings in the air without any fear. I hope, you'll ensure that, and it will influence others to do the same too.
"HER"..... remember this term.
•Thanks for holding your patience.
•Suggestions and Criticisms are always welcomed.
•Signing Off :- Arpit.
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