FEAR TO LOSE

So, how are you doing dear reader? I hope, everything is fine and I am wishing you the same.

☆ Fear to lose.... it's a frequent fear that we feel and hear about. Whether it be of losing someone we love, a job, a career goal or anything else that we have attached our head and heart to.

The thing is, whenever we fix our head and heart to something, we tend to become serious and possessive about it. For instance, when we are on the way to conquer a career a goal, we fear a lot in the journey that if the final results didn't meet our expectations? What if it doesn't turn out to be satisfactory? And what if everything gets ruined? We fear a lot right? And that's OK. After all it's human nature.

I have found that this fear is necessary. If we consider a serious person and a one who is doing things for fun. Like, a person who is not that serious about something will not fear that much. Because, it doesn't mean that much to them. Fear resides in those who consider that thing important. 

Even if we consider some successful relationships.....fear to lose one another plays a vital role to keep the mutual efforts and trueness constant and consistent within a bond. When we love something or someone truly fear enters inevitably as an important aspect into it. And this is this fear to lose that pushes us to work out the things in the right way. Infact the most romantic line that we can owe to our counterpart is.... "I fear to lose you some day". This fear sinks in our heart right from the moment we get into them and that's totally OK and cruicial too. It's good to let them know and hear it from them too. It's OK. 

I have experienced that, this fear to lose somone I love is the biggest fear of my life. And I guess, similar will be the case with you too. Because if something that matters the most to you ceases to an end from your life....what else can ache your heart, head and stomache more than that? Nothing rigt?

So, meditating on all these discussions....we need to cater to the needs and responsibilities our livelihood requires.  We need to put in efforts in every aura of our life....whether it be people, job or anything else. It's OK to fear but it doesn't mean that we should stop. We should be brave enough to take a step forward with the belief....that things will get settled. We need to keep our intent right....that's all. 

Are you fearing of something right now? Ohh, dear ....please don't.  You are a good person and you will figure the things out rightly. I believe in you. Good luck.

▪︎Thanks for holding your PATIENCE. 

▪︎ Suggestions and criticisms are always welcomed.

▪︎Singing Off :- ARPIT .