"WHEN THE THINGS DOESN'T GO AS PER OUR EXPECTATIONS"

# "EXPECTATIONS" - a simple looking word may be a source of heavy deteriorations sometimes". It sometimes acts in a much more painful ways than it actually looks like. Overall it's a "HAZARDOUS PILL TO SWALLOW". In other words we can say....... "FRUSTATIONS ARE SOMETIMES A RESULT OF OUR OWN EXPECTATIONS".

☆ DISCLAIMER :- In this article i am gonna put forward some points related to the "PATHETIC SITUATION" of a human being when the things go in a totally different way than he/she expected of. I have tried my best to keep the interests of the readers. I am very much sorry (🙅🏻‍♂️) for any inconvenience. Please (🙏) forgive me. 

By the way, i will urge you to "KEEP A BIG SMILE ON YOUR INNOCENT FACE (😃) and go through this article with full enthusiasm and high positive energy........👍.......

▪︎Now, let's begin with this article :-

•"Expectations" may be categorized into two types ....the first one developed in a short term with small  efforts and the second one developed in a long run after a lot of EFFORTS WITH FULL ENTHUSIASM,  TRUENESS AND DEDICATION". May the efforts be not a lot in numbers, sometimes, but the INTENSITY, PATIENCE, THOUGHT PROCESS,PURE INTENT BEHIND IT,etc. makes it much more EXCEPTIONAL and INTENSE in the mindset of the person putting these efforts. You know while putting in  these efforts a person goes into a cycle where he/she searches for HOPES in the initial days which are very justified. But  as the time passes and his/her enthusiasm or truenees behind putting these efforts doesn't fade......these HOPES start converting into EXPECTATIONS.

▪︎The graph goes like this......

¤ See, it's not the fault of that particular personality putting in his/her efforts .....it's just a natural cycle he/she passes through. It's just INEVITABLE, or you can say a form of UNCONTROLLABLE STUFF. Even if he/she  tries to apply the best law of nature called "PUTTING IN EFFORTS WITH NIL EXPECTATIONS" on himself/herself...... then,  he/she couldn't practice it to the fullest cuz, the law of nature doesn't allow this to happen perfectly. At the end of the day, everyone is a human being.......so are his/her interactions with the nature of the environment. And, you know what.....this is the point where he/she finds himself/herself totally unable to cope up with this pathetic situation.......even after trying his/her best with all his/her heart and soul ..... he/she finds himself/herself drowning deep into the PATHS OF THE BITTERING EXPECTATIONS. These finally lead to the "EMOTIONAL PAINS". And always remember, "EMOTIONAL PAINS ARE FAR MORE SEVERE AND BITTERING THAN THE PHYSICAL ONES".

▪︎You know what, these paths of putting in efforts are not that easy as they seem to be.....they are the paths paved with thorns which are likely to be travelled with our soles naked. It's that much painful.....if compared with. Even just a thought about such a pathetic situation can give us freaking jolts.

See, things are not that easy sometimes, as we think them to be. They are sometimes much more different than our thoughts. Sometimes what we are contemplating and making preconceptions about it may not be true. Sometimes, even we couldn't contemplate what we are all about .....like what our mind is wandering around? how sould we respond to the current situations? how should we react to the outer environment? etc....... then i hope ....it's crystal clear that ......difficulty and unpredictability of the situations we make preconceptions about   is just immeasurable.

▪︎See, in these long journeys full of true efforts which finally leads to the expectations.....there are various phases we have to pass through. And, believe me each and every phase is a challenging one in its own full of various kinds of fears which sometimes result in inhibiting the frequency of our efforts. But, i think it's justified as we are humans no!.

☆ By the way, these "UNCONTROLLABLY AROUSED EXPECTATIONS" LEAD TO MASSIVE DETERIORATIONS ACCOMPANIED BY SEVERE HEADACHE AND THE MOST PATHETIC ONE.......  "THE DEATH OF AN INNER WILL TO DO SOMETHING WE ARE INTERESTED IN". IT'S LITERALLY ONE OF THE MOST PATHETIC STATES A HUMAN BEING CAN ENTER INTO. IT BECOMES MUCH MORE  PATHETIC WHEN HIS/HER DESERVANCE GETS QUESTIONED IN HIMSELF/HERSELF. EVEN, WE CANNOT IMAGINE ABOUT SUCH A KIND OF HUGE DETERIORATION. A PERSON TRIES TO SEARCH FOR THE NIRVANA, CUZ....IT'S THE ONLY PLACE WHERE HIS/HER DETERIORATED MIND CAN FIND SOME PEACE.

 

▪︎At, the end of the day...... we have to accept that, not everything is meant to go the way we want based on our efforts and thought processes. Sometimes, the unexpected happenings occur......we must be ready to bear such deteriorating jolts .....as it is a fact that "THE LIFE HAS TO GO ON, NO MATTER WHAT A PERSON IS SUFFERING FROM.....HE/SHE HAS TO CARRY ON WITH THE SAME."  

▪︎ At, the end of the day.....we must try our best to smile at each and every moment......cuz, "OUR SMILING FACES (😃) ARE PRECIOUS ENOUGH TO PUT BIG SMILES ON MUCH MORE INNOCENT FACES LIKE OUR MOTHER'S ONE........ SO, KEEP SMILING (😀) AT THE UTMOST FREQUENCY YOUR BODY CAN SUSTAIN......STAY FONDLED AND BLESSED. 

#Thanks for giving your valuable time.

#SUGGESTIONS  and CRITICISMS  are always WELCOMED. .

▪︎Signing Off :- ARPIT PANDEY.