☆ FIRSTLY, I WISH YOU A VERY HAPPY AND PROSPEROUS FRIENDSHIP DAY. "MAY THE GOD'S GRACE BE SHOWERED UPON YOU TO THE EXTENT THAT IT MAY BE ABLE TO KEEP YOURSELF ALWAYS SMILING 😃 AND THE MOST IMPORTANTLY....VERY HAPPY FROM DEEP INSIDE YOUR SOUL"....
☆ "FRIENDS ARE AN UNSUNG MELODY".
I THINK, FRIENDS ARE THE PERSONALITIES WITHOUT WHOM, OUR WORLD IS NOT MEANT TO BE FULFILLED WITH OUR SMILING 😀 INNOCENT FACES. THE KIND OF CRAZY LOVE, AFFECTION AND INNOCENT FIGHTS WHICH EXIST BETWEEN THE FRIENDS IS NOT LESS THAN EXPERIENCING HEAVEN, IN THIS BUSY LIFE OF THE CONTEMPORARY TIMES.
● LET, ME REPRESENT AN ANALOGY OF TWO OF "EXCEPTIONALLY DELICIOUS" CHOCOLATES "FIVE STAR AND BOURNVILLE"..... TO DEFINE THE ACCOMPANYING NATURE OF TWO FRIENDS:-
•》You know, the two friends are just like "FIVE STAR" ACCOMPANIED BY "BOURNVILLE". The "BOURNVILLE" can provide you energy due to it's darkness but not the sweetness as it's tagline itself says..."#we are not so sweet". But, at the same time the "FIVESTAR" can quench the thirst of your taste with its EXCEPTIONAL SWEETNESS. See, how beautiful and admirable this combination is no!!.. If you notice then you will find that.... whether it be "FIVE STAR" or "BOURNVILLE"...both are the products of the same brand .i.e "CADBOURY". Similar is the case with two FRIENDS,too.....yes, they have different traits and attires but they are meant to be together cuz, They belong to the same kind of approach to keep themselves together. You know, in this brutal-selfish world ....where one person is busy in exhausting the other more than improving himself/herself..... i think these are the "TRUE FRIENDS" only who are the "REAL COMBINATION AND EXAMPLES" of the selfless attitude. But, the point to be noted is...."TRUE FRIENDS" are VERY RARE on this earth. But, if they exist they are the best creatures on our planet in my perception.
▪︎But, the most important point not to be forgotten is "BEFORE SESRCHING FOR A TRUE FRIEND, ASK YOURSELF THAT WHETHER YOU, YOUR THOUGHTS AND ACTIONS AS A WHOLE DESERVE A TRUE FRIEND OR NOT?.....IF YES, THEN YOU ARE AN EXCEPTIONAL EXISTENCE ON THIS EARTH . AND IF NO!....THEN FIRST WORK ON YOURSELF, BE A TRUE, IDEALISTIC PERSON IN YOURSELF AND THE DAY WHEN YOU CAN FEEL CONFIDENT FROM INSIDE THAT NOW I CAN BE SURELY ,A TRUE FRIEND OF SOMEONE THEN.....SURELY YOU CAN SEARCH FOR THE SAME...... "TRUENESS MATTERS A LOT".....
☆In short, you can say.... "FIRST DESERVE AND THEN DESIRE".
☆BUT, BELIEVE ME....IF YOU ARE A TRUE PERSON NO!....THEN YOU WILL NEVER NEED TO SEARCH FOR A TRUE PERSON WITH GOOD, KIND HEART CUZ. "THE SIMILAR THOUGHTS INTERACT VERY QUICKLY AS SOON AS THEY COME IN CONTACT". IN SHORT, "YOU WILL FIND THE SAME KIND OF PERSONALITY IN YOUR LIFE, AS YOU YOURSELF ARE". SO, SURELY WORK ON YOURSELF AND FOCUS ON YOUR THOUGHTS, ACTIONS AND THE MOST IMPORTANTLY.... "FOCUS ON YOUR KARMA".... THE WORLD IS YOURS 😊.....
☆ Let, me introduce you with another proven fact of our lives.... You, know when we "TRUST" on someone with all our heart and soul, then we get one out of the two possible results/consequences:-
a.) Either we get a "PERSON FOR LIFE".... or
b.) We get a "LESSON FOR LIFE"..... But, in my perception, gaining the versatile (various types of) experiences in our lives is very important.
☆And i think that you will be knowing well that,"TRUST IS THE COSTLIEST THING OF THIS WORLD....and CHEAP PEOPLE CAN'T AFFORD IT". So, surely before entering in this "TRUE FRIENDSHIP" make yourself that much "INNOCENT and ABLED" that anyone can TRUST you and at the same time....you must make sure that you never hurt the sentiments of the other by not adhering(proving yourself true) to the rules and regulations... this realistic, trustable life wants.....cuz, i think "HURTING A PEACEFUL, INNOCENT AND KIND SOUL IS THE MOST BRUTAL ACTION, A ONE CAN COMMIT". Let me share some quotes related to the "TRUST".....
☆I think, "FRIENDSHIPS are the kind of "TRUE RELATIONSHIPS in which EXPECTATIONS ARE VALID" but, to an optimum extent only".....
But, literally speaking "NIL EXPECTATIONS IS THE BEST KEY TO HOLD AND CARRY ON A TRUE RELATIONSHIP IN MY PERCEPTION". Cuz, what i think is .... "THESE ARE OUR EXPECTATIONS ONLY, WHICH LEAD TO THE DETERIORATIONS WHEN THEY ARE NOT FULFILLED AND WHICH FURTHER LEADS TO THE TRUST ISSUES AND ALL".... So, be aware of the expectations.... "DO EVERYTHING AS MUCH SELFLESSLY AS YOU CAN, AND NEVER EXPECT ANYTHING IN RETURN"..... Yes, "HOPES ARE VALID BUT EXPECTATIONS ARE NOT, CUZ. THERE IS A HUGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HOPES AND EXPECTATIONS". IN SHORT, "HOPES ARE JUST PREDICTIONS BUT, EXPECTATIONS CREATE A KIND OF SELF BELIEF THAT IT WILL HAPPEN AS PER MY THOUGHTS....AND THAT'S VERY HARMFUL, I THINK".
☆As, far as my personal experience is concerned "EXPECTING FROM A FRIEND IS GOOD, BUT DOING THE SAME IN RETURN BEFORE THE OTHER ASKS FOR THE SAME IS THE BEST."
YOU, KNOW, WHAT AT THE END OF THE DAY MATTERS IS.....HOW DO WE RESOLVE OUR DETERIORATIONS MUTUALLY?.... Cuz, what i believe is.... "TRUE RELATIONSHIPS ARE MEANT TO BE CARRIED ON WITH MUTUAL EFFORTS"..... It's similar to a famous hindi phrase .... "CAN'T CLAP WITH ONE HAND (EK HANTH SE TALI NAHI BAJ SAKTI)".....
☆And, the "MOST BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIPS" ....like "TRUE FRIENDSHIPS ARE AN INTEGRAL PART OF OUR LIVES.....WE MUST CHERISH THEM WITH A BIG SMILE ON OUR FACES 😃 TO THE EXTENT WE CAN!!"
☆You, know "PROSPERITY RESIDES IN THE SATISFACTION OF OUR HEARTS ONLY".... AND "THE FLUENCY OF OUR SMILES 😀 ARE AN INDICATOR OF THE SAME".
☆ So, in order to reap/cherish the "EXCEPTIONALLY ENJOYABLE FRUITS" of the "TRUE RELATIONSHIPS LIKE FRIENDSHIP".... we must be having the qualities like.... "LOYALTY, FAITHFULLNESS, NIL/ZERO EXPECTATIONS, PATIENCE, GRATITUDE, KINDNESS, COMPASSION, SELFLESS ATTITUDE, THANKFULNESS, TRUSTWORTHINESS," etc..... which develops in us with our own mindset and attitude towards life. "our KARMA defines these qualities".
☆Let, me present you a "BLUE MATTE FRIENSHIP BAND"....... JUST KEEP A BIG 😀 SMILE ON YOUR FACE AND HAVE IT....
(☆ BLUE MATTE IS MY PERSONAL FAVOURITE COLOUR 😊)
"HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY, AGAIN" 😀....
☆A SHORT MESSAGE TO MY FRIENDS :- FIRSTLY I AM THANKFUL AND GRATEFUL TO THE GOD ,THAT HE BLESSED ME WITH SUCH TRUE FRIENDS IN MY LIFE. I WILL ALWAYS TRY MY BEST TO SOLVE OUR MUTUAL DETERIORATINS. AND, BELIEVE ME WHENEVER YOU WILL NEED ME NO! I WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU. BECAUSE, FRIENDS DO MATTER!!!!
I want to dedicate a song to you:-
▪︎So, hereby i end this tiny article of mine. I hope you loved to go through this.
▪︎Thanks for giving your precious time.
▪︎Suggestions and Criticisms are always welcomed.
☆Signing off :- ARPIT PANDEY.
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Hat's off to you sir such a great inspirational person u are... thanks for writing this article... I can't even believe that a teenager can define the aspects of a true relationship to this extent...you are such a true person...������
ReplyDeleteOhhh.....it's my pleasure to go through such an inspirational and motivational feedback. Really, i am blessed to have the readers like you..... cuz. "What matters the most for a writer is the feedback from its readers". As far as the definings of a true relationship are concerned, i think these are our personal traits and mindsets which make us realise what our responsibilities actually are. And in my mindset "TRUE RELATIONSHIP IS ANOTHER FORM OF OUR RESPONSIBILITY". Thanks a lot!!!!
ReplyDeleteLife with out friends is hard to imagine ... 😊😊
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