"OUR PRIORITIES" - "HOW DO THEY AFFECT US?".

# DISCLAIMER :- What i am gonna write, is totally based on my real life experiences and somewhat my imaginations too.....but my imaginations are themselves based on the essence of my real life experiences. Have a peaceful and energetic reading.

》I have tried my best to keep the interests of the sentimental values of the readers. So, i am heartedly very sorry (🙅‍♂️) if you find anything mistaken by me ..... but believe in my lines, and have a concious reading.....

☆Firstly, i would like to request you to wear a smile 😃 on your face and then proceed further with this article!!!! Are you really smiling??....GOOD👍, GO AHEAD....

#PRE- REQUISITE :- TAKE A DREAM IN YOUR MIND, YOU REALLY ADMIRE TO WORK FOR. IT WILL HELP YOU TO CORRELATE YOUR THOUGHTS WITH THE CRUX OF THIS ARTICLE.

☆YOU KNOW WHAT ! THE KIND OF PERSON WE ARE IN THE SIGHT OF THIS CONTEMPORARY WORLD.....IS A SOLE RESULT OF THE KIND OF PRIORITIES WE FIX IN OUR LIVES, BASED ON OUR SITUATIONS AND THE NEEDS OF OUR ENVIRONMENT SURROUNDED BY LOVING PERSONS, BEAUTIFUL NATURE AND OUR DREAMS OBVIOUSLY. BUT, IN THE PROCESS OF FOLLOWING THE SELF MADE PATHS, WE SURELY FIND A LOT OF DIFFICULTIES....BUT I THINK HERE COMES THE ROLE OF OUR MATURITY AND THE THOUGHT PROCESS AS A WHOLE. AND THE BEAUTY OF OUR OWN MINDSET IS THAT, IT BECOMES WHAT, WE WANT! IF WE PRIORITISE THE RIGHT THINGS AT THE PERFECT TIMINGS. Here, i want to put forward an image as an illustration of these statements....

 ☆ Do you still believe that, "WE OURSELVES MAKE OUR PRIORITIES"?

》Try to think 🤔 on your own!!

》If yess!! Then i would request you to contemplate(to think deeply) on it again!

Because, as per my mindset and real life experiences, i find it something different.

You know what! "PRIORITIES ARE SOMETHING WHICH ARE NOT MADE BY US, RATHER THEY ARE THE ONLY THING WHICH  MAKE OURSELVES".  And i think these are the stuffs, which matter the most in our lives. But, the crux is , these do not fix their places in our soul accidently or in other words instantly.....it takes time to understand what kind of future we want or what kind of personality we want to become?. But, the most important aspect of our TRUE PRIORITIES is...."HOLD ON TILL IT SCRATCHES YOUR LAST BREATHE". The condition being, whether it's TRUE(in terms of YOUR WILLINGNESS TO DO ANYTHING, ANYWHERE, ANYTIME FOR IT.....OR YOU CAN SAY, WHETHER IT'S THE ONLY ONE IN IT'S ENTIRE DOMAIN WHICH YOU WISH FOR OR NO!....CUZ. I THINK IF YOU WILL RUSH AROUND VARIOUS STUFFS IN THE SAME DOMAIN THEN, SURELY YOU WILL GET DISTRACTED AND YOUR TRUENESS WILL BE NIL.....SO HOW CAN YOU EVEN THINK OF PUTTING YOUR BEST EFFORTS FOR IT.... CUZ, YOU ALREADY ARE A CHEATER!!!! THE MAIN POINT BEING, TRUENESS TOWARDS SOMETHING IS THE MOST IMPORTANT ASPECT, KEEP YOUR EYES ON THE ONLY ONE IN IT'S ENTIRE DOMAIN, SO AS TO FOCUS IN THE BEST WAY ON IT AND WORK ON IT SELFLESSLY WITHOUT ANY EXPECTATIONS.....AND YOU KNOW WHAT, WORKING ON THE ONLY ONE IDEA AT A TIME IS THE BEST WAY TO PROCEED IN THE LIFE AND GAINING REAL LIFE EXPERIENCES WHETHER IT'S GOOD OR BAD, BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY, BELIEVE THAT THEY WILL PROVE TO BE GOOD FOR YOU!).  in reality or not.....which can be answered in the best by your heart and  mind, and no one or nothing else. And, i believe if it's real no! then it's not difficult to hold on.....cuz we agree to sustain all the pains and flaws no! But, i want to make one thing very clear that, it's not that easy, as it seems when you are reading this!

But, the point not to be missed at any cost is, we must stay positive throughout these tough journeys, because i think it's impossible to cross these tough journeys without having a  strong PATIENCE with a positive mindset.....

《It's my self made one.....✍😊》.

☆You know what, "IT'S THE REAL TEST OF YOUR PATIENCE". And i think you are truely aware about the stuff, that it depends on our mindset and situations that.....how do we prioritise the things in our life?.

》And we keep questioning ourselves about the perfect timings of everything in our lives as per the situarion demands. But, the point to be contemplated is, what we think is totally based on our mindset and the "MATURITY".

》One important point to be noted is, try your best, no matter how difficult or painful you find it in the ongoing journey, but never leave any point of dissatisfaction in your efforts which may become a reason for your "GUILTY FEELING". As, i mentioned earlier too "GUILT IS A KIND OF STUFF WHICH MAKES A PERSON HOLLOW FROM INSIDE".. I mean at the end of the day, we must me able to answer a question to ourselves that, "WHETHER I TRIED MY BEST EFFORTS OR NOT". . And i think , if our heart and mind as a whole answers like hey, you tried your best! then it will surely put a "POSITIVE EFFECT" on our mindset. Yess, there will surely be some adverse effects , of it too....if we fail...like we will start questioning our abilites, have strong headache which can't be cured by painkillers even, start thinking like do i deserve to be a failure?....and blah blah!!

And the most adverse effect be like.....we will like to go in a complete silent mode and want a solitude like plugging into nirvana.Like, we start losing interest in every damn thing, we love in normal days!!!!

☆But, at the end of the day, what matters the most is....."NO MATTER WHETHER YOU FAIL OR EVEN SUCCEED KEEP YOUR INTENT AND EFFORTS THE SAME AS YOU KEPT IT IN THE PROCESS TO REACH TO IT.....BECAUSE IT'S MUCH DIFFICULT TO SUSTAIN YOUR ACHIEVEMENT FOR LONG THAN REACHING TO IT"

☆And i think, "TOUGHNESS OF THESE  JOURNEYS IS THE ONLY STUFF WHICH CAN MAKE YOU UNDERSTAND ABOUT THE REAL WORTH OF SOMETHING.....AND IN TURN TO RESPECT OR CARE FOR THE SAME IN A WAY, THAT IS JUST FAR BEYOND THE REACH OF THIS NORMAL WORLD......YOU CAN SAY IT'S JUST ANOTHER FORM OF THE POSITIVE AND HUMBLE ATTITUDE OF A PERSON"......READ THIS AGAIN!!!!

☆And, try to smile😊, no matter how difficult you find it in rality to do !!......

☆Keep smiling 😃 cuz, it's  the most costly and worthy jewellery you own!!!!

☆Have a good day, and thanks for reading!!!

☆Hope you enjoyed reading this article 

☆SUGGESTIONS and CRITICISMS are always WELCOMED 

☆Signing off :- ARPIT PANDEY.